Can anything good come out of ZION?

Well, forgive my little twist in subject, but I've often wondered when we women would realize our true worth and ACT like it.. It's no news that there are a lot of desperate single ladies around everywhere, but the question I keep asking anyone of them I am opportune to meet is...What are you doing while waiting? What value will your husband meet when he finally comes for you that will make him KNOW that you were worth the wait?

I had the privilege of peeping into Feeyi Okupe's notes on this matter and was I blown away? Yes, I still am. I am impressed we still have single ladies who know who they are and are ready to stand by what God says about them without fear! Only those who wait upon God in Zion can understand these things. Popularly known as Faye of Zion, a daughter in the Commonwealth of Zion Assembly (COZA), a Lawyer and a blogger too http://the31degrees.blogspot.com/  
Have a peep into her WORD world....Who says nothing good can come out of Zion?????


Wives & Wives -in-Waiting (A Woman's Worth)
 

I recently watched a video on Instagram, of ladies advertising that they are "Single and they need a Man". I am sure a couple of people saw that video too but I would like to believe they were just joking. If they weren't then that's sad. It is sad because it shows what loneliness and lack of identity can do to a woman. If a woman knew what she was worth, she will not feel that a Man was the solution to her loneliness.

In the bible, a Woman was created for the Man because the Man was alone and not the other way round, (Genesis 2:18), therefore Women need to see themselves as an asset not a sorry case. The bible also says in Proverbs 18:22 that, "He that finds a wife, finds Favour from God" not "She that finds a Man..." This goes to show that women are highly esteemed jewels in the sight of God thus should not belittle themselves.

As a Wife-in-Waiting, when a man asks you out for courtship, the word Yes or No should not proceed out of your mouth 'as fast as the speed of lighting' because that only shows that you are desperate. Rather, you should ask him to give you some time to think/pray about it. Speak to your Pastor/Mentor or Parents about it before you enter into courtship and be sure that you are ready to go the long haul with the man. Get to know him, (the real him, not the "churchy him"), ask the Holy Spirit to guide you because Marriage is not a school you enroll and decide after a tough exam that you want to withdraw. In fact, in the "School of Marriage", you are given your certificate the day you enrol because you are not expected to graduate or withdraw from it. It is a School of Life and for Life.
 
Overall, every Woman should understand that GOD loves her so much and places high importance on her that He made her so complex and beautiful, formed her physical body with detail and finesse and it will be rather ungodly and ungrateful for her to disrespect herself by dressing indecently, talking indecently or acting desperate for a relationship or marriage because the most important relationship a woman should have is a relationship with GOD. 

Know your worth as a woman, carry yourself with dignity & poise and you will definitely attract the right man who knows your worth.
Have a blessed day Ladies, you are beautiful, fearfully and wonderfully made