DEAR MEN......

Thank you for accepting us the way we are, even though you sometimes do not understand how we are wired, you still stick with us. Thank you for always giving us the thrill of a good chase when asking us out. Those beautiful rhymes of poetry you display either verbally or written, rendered to woo us into falling into your arms. Some of us know what you really want, that is why we give you a hard time for your time’s worth. Some of us take pity on you and just express... our minds to you so you don’t waste your time, not like some of you get the message on time. Believe me when I say women are gifted with good instincts, though not all of us are sensitive to it. We can tell when a man is fooling around with us and when he is really serious, we deliberately give ourselves in to the adventure of what the positive outcomes would be.

Thank you for being patient through all our demands after we eventually say YES to you. We have so many conflicting emotions that even we are confused sometimes, and through our mood swings, you try everything possible to make us happy. You spend time with us, take us shopping/buy stuffs for us, and spring up surprises, all just to make us happy. You make us feel super special and important to your world by giving us your total attention.

Can you handle THE TRUTH!

If there's one thing I have promised myself to always keep in mind in my marital life, it's to always tell myself the truth and square up to face it regardless of how bitter it may be. The truth, some say is bitter but I love the part that it also sets free. This tells me, knowledge without manipulation is very powerful. I have been to several weddings this year and have seen how people strive to put quality in the events. Whether they do it to impress others or just to ensure that they have a fun filled day, the most important thing is to know that this is the beginning of something entirely different.

Couples need to realise that being happy in marriage is more than putting happy looking pictures of you and your spouse on social media. I tell those that care to listen, don't ever pray for the kind of marriage your friends have based on what you see and read about them. People never present a bad image of them selves to the public. You don't know what is going on in the privacy of their bedroom.