WHO ARE YOU TALKING TO???

''Always Know WHO you are talking to'' - Dr. Mike Murdock
That statement seems very simple, yet it is so pregnant with definition, especially in marriage. Some people have lost their jobs and joy because of this. Some marriages have broken up today because a partner didn't understand ''who'' they were talking to.

We must understand as couples that WORDS are powerful, they are spirit and they don't die, which is why there are words some people have said to us in a long while that we can never forget, they are alive in us each day and only a spirit-filled object can be alive.

Back to marriage, a lot of men have turned drunks and embraced some vices today because their wives had said things to bruise their egos and didn't realise words are powerful, especially to the king of our home. Most women speak so shabbily to their husbands and don't honor them, even in the midst of their friends.

You should come to where I'm located to see what I'm talking about. An incident happened some day; I was in the office when I heard some noise downstairs. Trying to find out what was happening to warrant such disturbance, I saw a lady and a guy inside a car, the lady was letting all hell lose on

the guy, but the guy just kept mum. From the convo, they've been married for quite a while, the lady seem to be the one taking care of the home, the lady suspected the guy of cheating on him and that was it....She said all manner of deameaning and unspeakable things to the guy not minding who was listening, but interestingly the guy didn't say a word. Infuriated she got down from the passenger seat and asked the guy to hand over 'HER'' car keys and drove off after throwing the guy and his things out from the car.
Now this left me a bit confused as I didn't know what to think, but several thoughts ran through my mind. If the guy was cheating, could it be that someone else was treating him better and speaking life to him than the wife was doing? WOMEN, no amount of ''I reject it in Jesus name'' will be enough to dampen your husband's spirit, if you don't treat him like the king he is. Dr. Mike Murdock said, in every man is a King and a Fool, who you talk to in him, determines what result you get.

Have you read Esther's account, she could not behave like Vashti did, if not her people would have perished. She was a wise woman, who knew who she was talking to and observed the protocol of his presence. What of King David's wife? why was she the only barren woman in the Bible? She didn't know who she was speaking to....an anointed of God, a King, the man after God's heart!

Most pastors' ministry have become a shadow of its former glory because of their wives. I thank God for my mentors Pastor Modele Fatoyinbo and Mummy Funke Adejumo,  who constantly teaches us the important of speaking the right words, especially to our husbands because they are gifts to us from God....Oh! how forcibly are right words... If you are a woman reading this, say with me....

My husband is my king

I will adore him as such

He is blessed in the city and in the field

The work of his hands are blessed

My love and honour is dedicated to him

His love and affection is dedicated to me

He is a gift to me and I will treat him as such

I will not be a barrier to his glory

I will not kill my gift

I will bring joy to him always

My thoughts will give his heart peace

I will protect him always

I disassociate myself from wagging tongues who want to tear us apart

I pray for him always

He does no wrong, because I am his wife

Together, we shake the world and we speak God's word

Our home is blessed and great is our peace

We enjoy the best of God

I am the Proverbs 31:26 woman to my husband

Did you say a big AMEN?

Thank you Dr. Mike for opening up our spirit to who we can be when we know who we are talking to...Thank you Mummy Modele Fatoyinbo for teaching us our stand as wives to our husbands...I LOVE YOU