This issue has become a cause of worry in most homes. If you
are single and in a relationship, if for any reason you decide to part with
him/her, your reasons must be genuine enough not to fall back into temptation
in the future. Let me delve further, when you get married, there's this kind of
glow that exudes from your being that gives you a new look that makes everyone compliment
you. That is when you hear comments like 'wow, it's good to be married'. At this
point, you must know that it's not just our friends, colleagues and family that
are watching, your ex(es) as the case may be are also watching.
The way and
manner you parted doesn't matter, all eyes are on you now. Do not however be
deceived that since you are now married, you can just be friends with them, you
should understand that there's just this natural force of attraction marriage
brings. This is the time some of them will call you out of the blues just to
wish you a happy married life and from there call once in a while to check up
and before you know they become family friends.